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remembering you bro  / Stephen Coleman (his good friend )
hey bro,, never got a chance to say thank you for taking me home with you.... wish there could been many more times... me and the teammates are always thinking of you and the great times we had in our short period together... we love you and we will see you later bro.... RIP  BJ   #92
Good times  / Rob Walter (Best Friend )

       The first day I moved to Tiffin, I met this shy and quite kid named Bj.  Little did I know that this shy and quite kid would become my best friend.  Some of the best memories I have are with Bj, from the days of stealing lawn jockeys, playing video games, going to Smitty's, or even just sitting around talking, we always had good times.  I truly can't explain how much I miss my Bj.  Things just aren't the same here in Tiffin without my best friend to hang out with, but I always have my stories and boy do we have some good ones!  People may get tired of me always telling stories, but that will never keep me from saying, "This one time me and Bj..."  I deeply miss my best friend and nothing will ever change that, but in times of sadness I just sit down and tell my self and anyone that will listen a story about one of our good times......................those were good times.

                                                  I miss you brother,

                                                                Rob            

Hey BJ  / Hunter Meadors (Brother-in-Law)
Dear Justin "BJ" Passarge,

      I making it ok. Its really tough looking at this website of yours. I am doing great you know i am about six foot-one now and about 175 pounds and I am going to be playing football, baseball, and basketball just like you did in High School. I really wish you could be here to give me guidance that would help me prosper. It really hurts without you here. Losing someone as close as you felt like my heart was pulled out and smashed. Erin is doing alright but she has really taken a hit since you left us. But she is trucking on through life and its problems. The rest of the family is good and Amy and Eric had a baby boy named Bryce. He is great, but I wish you were here to see him. Not a day goes by where I don't think of you. I hold on the the one hope and belief that one day, the Lord will let our paths cross and we can do all of our catching up then. I love you BJ.



                                                                       Love,
                                                                     Hunter



I love you  / Joshua Passarge Jr. (Nephew)

"I love you and i miss you.  You are my best friend because you always played with me.  You will always be in my heart.  Sorry about your car accident, but one day i will see you in heaven.  i love you up to the moon and the sun and the sky and in heaven. And i will always be in your heart too." 

PS "When i get to heaven i will call you on the phone if there are any phones up there and when eveyone one in my family goes to heaven we will be a big happy family again."

I love you uncle BJ

Love Baby Josh

Happy Birthday, BJ  / Judy Allen (Aunt)  Read >>
Happy Birthday, BJ  / Judy Allen (Aunt)

Dearest BJ

I miss you so much.   Your birthday has always been a double whammy for me.   I was so happy you were born but at the same time you were being born I was also in a hospital having a miscarriage.   That was just another reason  you were special to me.   Your brother Josh has been extra special to me because he was born just before my first son died.   I love you and miss you and can't wait to see you again.

Aunt Judy

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What a great guy...  / Natalie Wood (college classmate )  Read >>
What a great guy...  / Natalie Wood (college classmate )
I remember meeting BJ when I moved into Craycraft Hall at Tiffin. I remembered that he was from Glen Este because I graduated from Mason, and I would always make fun of him and call him Glen's Testes... (hahaha). He was so nice and always had his dorm room door open for visitors, and always shared his food :) I was no longer attending TU at the time of his death so I wasn't able to come to any memorials or services, but he truly was a great guy, and God just needed him a little more than we did. Close
Two years  / Judy Allen (Aunt)  Read >>
Two years  / Judy Allen (Aunt)

BJ,

In some ways, it seems like it hasn't been two whole years since you left.   In other ways, it seems like it has been an eternity.   I miss you so badly.   My heart goes out to your parents, especially today.   Good Friday falling on the anniversary just isn't a good thing.   I guess, though, it can remind us that we will see you again and you aren't in pain because you are in Heaven.

I love you and miss you,

Aunt Judy

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..... / Erin Withrow (Girlfriend/Fiance/So---ulmate)  Read >>
..... / Erin Withrow (Girlfriend/Fiance/So---ulmate)
I do not like to write to you through these things but maybe it will help me because today is a rough day.  Being without you on this Earth is one of the hardest things I will ever do in my life.  I miss you so much that it hurts me and I am finding it really hard to pull it together today.  Some days are better than others but I still do not feel like I fully exist without you here with me.  I never realized how much love someone can have for someone until they are gone and how it still does not get any easier.  I got a new job at the hospital babe and school is going okay.  Delilah is a handful but your mom takes good care of her until I can get a better place to take care of her on my own.  I just wish you would come and save me and take me with you.  I will hopefully see you soon.  I love you. Close
Life is but a stopping place  / Lorraine Mom To Angel Kelli   Read >>
Life is but a stopping place  / Lorraine Mom To Angel Kelli
Life is but a stopping place,
A pause in what's to be,
A resting place along the road,
to sweet eternity.
We all have different journeys,
Different paths along the way,
We all were meant to learn some things,
but never meant to stay...
Our destination is a place,
Far greater than we know.
For some the journey's quicker,
For some the journey's slow.
And when the journey finally ends,
We'll claim a great reward,
And find an everlasting peace,
Together with the lord
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miss u  / Josh Carver (Good Friend )  Read >>
miss u  / Josh Carver (Good Friend )
I miss my homie i miss the way life use to be it seemed life was so easy before the accident but i can only live my life the way it needs to be lived i miss u brother but your always in my heart i have you in my room here in athens... im not in tiffin but your still with me bj i love u! Close
FAMILY CHAIN  / LINDA (MOM)  Read >>
FAMILY CHAIN  / LINDA (MOM)

HAPPY 23RD BIRTHDAY! WE LITTLE KNEW THAT MORNING, GOD WAS GOING TO CALL YOU NAME, IN LIFE WE LOVED YOU DEARLY, IN DEATH WE DO THE SAME.  IT BROKE OUR HEARTS TO LOSE YOU, YOU DID NOT GO ALONE. FOR PART OF US WENT WITH YOU. THE DAY GOD CALLED YOU HOME. YOU LEFT US BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES, YOUR LOVE IS STILL OUR GUIDE,  AND THOUGH WE CANNOT SEE YOU,  YOU ARE ALWAYS AT OUR SIDE.

OUR FAMILY CHAIN IS BROKEN, AND NOTHING SEEMS THE SAME,  BUT A GOD CALL US ONE BY ONE, THE CHAIN WILL LINK AGAIN.

MISS YOU MY SON.

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Never Forget  / Mary Passarge (Sister-in-law/ friend )  Read >>
Never Forget  / Mary Passarge (Sister-in-law/ friend )

The things i will never forget about BJ

I will never forget his smile because he was always smiling

I will never forget watching him fall in love with Erin, as Josh and i were falling in love at the same time.

I will never forget the look in his eyes when i told him i was pregnant the first time at Frishes.

I will never forget all the times he jokeingly called me fat when i was pregnant

I will never forget the first time he held Joshua in his arms so happy and so proud

I will never forget how wonderful of an uncle you became to my boys and for that they will never forget you

I will never forget how close we had become over the years not only as a brother-in-law but a friend that i could always rely on

There are so many things to never forget about you...........  so just know that i love you and will always miss you.

Your only sister Mary

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Missing You  / Judy Allen (Aunt)  Read >>
Missing You  / Judy Allen (Aunt)
Supposedly, the longer someone is gone, the easier it is to deal with.   That isn't true in your case, BJ.   I still miss you and think of you every day.   And every day I realize just how much we have lost.   You and your brother are so special to me.   You are my children as well as my sister's children.   I can't wait to see you and your grandmother again. Close
Rememer with love  / Kelly Pridgen (cousin)  Read >>
Rememer with love  / Kelly Pridgen (cousin)
BJ you were a shining light in what can be a dark world.  You were the light of your Grandma's eyes and a spark of love in your Uncle John's.   You overcame alot to live your dream and your zest for life had brought you far.  You are deeply missed and will never be forgotten. Close
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